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mmurryy asked: I'm the kind of Afghan guy you would actually like to marry....... Except I'm not Afghan, nor am i a man. Sorry for playing with your emotions
You broke my emotions mariam Lol. Afghan men and I are not friends nor can we ever be.
Anonymous asked: i feel you ukhti but at the same time i wish i was pretty, no guy has ever looked at me twice even (which in a way is alhumdulillah ?)
Yes indeed ofcourse a trillion percent alHamdulillah. Sister dont ever think like that. Your beauty is preserved for only a few select few ;) if you wear hijab/abaaya etc take comfort from this and know that theyre doing their job and keeping away hungry eyes. And another point to add, how do you know you havent made someone look twice but out of respect they just stayed schtum and lowered their gaze? Even if this has been the case, what is important to remember and realise is that You never ever ever need comfirmation from a mans attention or attraction to know you are beautiful. You were created by Allah swt, how can anything he has ordered to be, be anything but beautiful?
as for this creeper I went off on one about, alhamdulillah, I know he doesnt like me nor do his friends, they are just major creeps which in a way is a relief because if they were infactuated I would be terrified. Ive been in similar situations in the past. A few years ago a much older man did infact like me and would openly make advances whenever he saw me (which was often). It wasnt flattering in the slightest, it was really horrible. I would have to take new routes home and make sure I wasnt being followed and I had to avoid going to certain places and life was just a struggle lol. No attention is better than this kind of attention or any other attention for that matter, I promise you.
Id really love it if you could message me off anon, if you feel comfortable enough (please!)
Guys Ima need some duas :(
I dont know if its just me but growing up in certain places and small towns you get attention from creepy ass dudes who you see almost everywhere who set their hawk eyes on you, sometimes just for the hell of it. *tears*
This one guy in particular whenever I turn around, he’s just there and he has a small posse of friends who do the same but usually I can shake them off once I come into my road. But just now I was standing outside my house in my pjs saying goodbye to some relatives who had come to visit and this dude just happened to be walking past, I managed to duck behind my brother but the damage has was already done.
I need to make hijrah and leave this damn place cause afghan phone card guys will be the death of me.
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